Band of Eternity
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My hand is naked
The rings that united us
Ceremoniously
Cut off
leaving a deep impression
a trough of grief
etched in my hand
My naked hand
sent concentric ripples
of pain
throughout my body
completing a seperation
that began seven years ago
culminating with death
In Baba’s mortar and pestle
the artisan grinds my gold bands
using a circular motion
she prepares
makes ready
recycles
the diamond
creating
a new band for eternity
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Making Descansos 
The design sounds just perfect. Am looking forward to seeing the finished piece.
Comment by Traveller February 22, 2007 @ 8:34 amSounds just perfect.
Comment by imogen88 February 22, 2007 @ 9:29 amA great idea… a keepsake that will keep you and Darryl together forever.
Comment by Vi February 22, 2007 @ 4:04 pmWaht a beautiful and tender idea. So precious.
Comment by soulsister February 22, 2007 @ 7:42 pmThis sounds stunning! Dear Raven companions: bringer of the light. May they bring you strength, peace and comfort.
Comment by lunagirl February 23, 2007 @ 9:14 pmIt sounds beautiful and perfect for you, Heather.
Comment by Robin March 6, 2007 @ 11:45 pmMourning jewlery was a tradition- an important one because of what rings ( and even watches ) represent to us. Still, having these crafted will take a bit of energy from you- just shout if you need some passed your way.
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Comment by Anita Marie March 22, 2007 @ 4:29 pmAnita Marie
My heart goes out to you…and what a lovely idea for the jewelry. We have ashes from my husband’s parents and step-mother and have only scattered them. Now you’ve given me the idea to use some of his step-mother’s (who I lived with for 6 months) in some of my pottery- she was an artist too. Thank you, Heather and please know that in this world, your world, your grief and loss is recognized.
Comment by marimann March 22, 2007 @ 5:38 pmSending you blessings
Comment by peacebird March 22, 2007 @ 5:39 pmWhat beautiful way to stay close to your Darryl. Blessings and peace be with you.
Comment by shewolfy728 March 22, 2007 @ 6:37 pmHold fast to memory yet live each day as he would have you live, welcome the sun and walk toward the gentle dusk surrounded by the love he gave you. Fran
Comment by Fran March 22, 2007 @ 11:15 pmMourning jewelry is such an important part of our lives. I’m sorry it’s not done much any more. I have a brooch that includes my great-grandmother’s hair as a tiny braid, mixed with gold thread, in the bezel. There is a great sense of connection in the jewelry we choose and wear. May it bring you comfort and deep union.
Comment by Quinn McDonald March 26, 2007 @ 5:13 pmWhat a powerful healing ritual for you and Darryl. I hope it brings you solace and comfort.
Comment by Julie March 29, 2007 @ 4:12 pm